Good Leaders: How do you clear your mind?

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Sometimes I need to swing a hammer and create a big mess to clear my mind. What fun!

Sometimes I need to swing a hammer and create a big mess to clear my mind. What fun!

I believe human beings were made to enjoy working hard and building things. Life is work, work is life! That’s one of the reasons I tackle a home remodeling project every winter.

White collar problems

Many of you share my plight – with management/consulting jobs, we don’t really make anything. We produce confidence. In and of itself, that’s satisfying. But after a long week of travel, speaking, facilitating and coaching… I need to swing a hammer, or push a paint brush to clear my mind.

Do seven trips to Home Depot count as remodeling therapy?

Sprint to the finish

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My "day job" included a speaking engagement for 150 hospital leaders. Exciting work that did not involve a hammer.

My “day job” included a speaking engagement for 150 hospital leaders. Exciting work that did not involve a hammer.

“I always give him a deadline,” Melinda told our dinner dates. This year the deadline is her Oscars party on February 22. That’s our mid-winter excuse to transform our family room and game room into a chicks-only, red carpet cinema celebration.

So after 19 years of kids and dogs trashing the carpets, we decided to yank up the floors and spread a fresh coat of paint for Oscar. But just like the sweater that unravels when you pull just one stray thread… we also decided to re-wire the office, change out the 1960’s lighting and gut the 1990’s shower. All in one weekend.

It gets worse, before it gets better

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"Don't worry," John assured Melinda. We'll have all this done in time for the Oscars.

“Don’t worry,” John assured Melinda. “We’ll have all this done in time for the Oscars.”

All I promised was to get the “messy stuff” done before the new carpet comes.  That means fixing the ceilings, painting two rooms and restoring the use of the toilet, within two weeks. Oh yeah, and I’ll be in California Monday – Wednesday this week. What was I thinking?

With the capable help of Mike and John we created one helluva mess. With hammers, cold chisels, pry bars, jig saws and wire snips in a synchronized rhythm we created a cloud of dust, dirt, mold, grit and sweat. A chorus of grunting, swearing and laughter! (Might have even been some beer involved.)

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We always have these tools in the tool box.

Weekend carpenters always have these in the tool box.

At my age, swinging the hammer, getting down on my knees and climbing the ladders isn’t as easy as it used to be. But on Sunday night, we admired our work and acknowledged the obvious: sore muscles and bloody fingers add to the joy of the job. Before bed, I wondered… what will we tackle next year?

Good leaders enjoy working hard and building things. And sometimes they work harder on the weekends than during the week because it clears the mind.

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3 Comments

  1. Beau on February 10, 2015 at 9:13 am

    With a desk job, manual labor helps clear my head. From painting to yard work, that sense of accomplishment always feels good. Congrats on the updated “nest.”



  2. Matthew on February 10, 2015 at 11:18 am

    Great post, thank you. I grew up working with my hands, and I’m forever thankful to my
    father for instilling this creativity and workmanship. I agree, it’s great therapy
    and it brings me back to a genuine feeling of accomplishment. I recently
    refurbished my father’s 1960s John Deere snow blower. I rescued the decrepit machine
    when helping my dad prepare a load of scrap metal for recycling. I finished the
    project just in time.



  3. Ginny on February 10, 2015 at 3:41 pm

    I actually love the results of all this home remodeling work that you are talking about and certainly enjoy a good visit to Home Depot. However, I actually clear my mind by working with my horses and trying to have a good relationship to enable a better ride than the last time. Horses live in the moment and can teach us to have an amazingly clear mind, very quickly,… they do not hang on to all the trials and tribulations of the day. Even in the winter in the midwest.. but of course in an indoor arena!!!



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